Wow.
Who would've thought that a few thousand X-rated movies stored on your
hard drive would be an indicator of a pórn addiction?
That
stack of dirty magazines dating from the mid-1980s may be an indicator
as well. All joking aside, here are four signs you have a legitimate
pórn addiction.
Pórn, pórn everywhere. If you can't get away from pórn, even just for a little while, you have a pórn addiction. If you have pórn on your laptop, pórn on your smartphone and you still have the need to carry around magazines in your briefcase, seek help. Another sign is when pórn begins to take up more and more of your day. Ask yourself this: What's your relationship with pórn. If you spend time, only on the weekends, watching pórn, you're probably OK. If, however, you've seen the time spent on pórn increase over a period of time, you're addicted.
Getting in the way. If
you find yourself replacing your normal activities with porn, you have a
problem. You used to hang out with friends, but now you're hanging with
your laptop. Pórn addiction is like any other addiction. You replace
aspects of your previous life with this addiction and, gradually,
there's nothing but the addiction left. Coming to work late because of
pórn, not being able to even start your day without pórn or sneaking to
watch pórn on your smartphone in the bathroom are all signs of an
addiction.
Really serious. If,
by chance, you lose something serious like a job or a relationship over
pórn and you continue to seek that pórn for refuge, you're definitely
addicted. Any other addict will do the same thing with their addiction.
The very thing that has destroyed their lives is the very thing they
continue to run back to. Replace your pórn addiction with heroin, crack,
alcohol and you'll see very similar results. Hopefully your addiction
to pórn never gets this severe. Ask yourself right now: As you read
this, do you have two or three other windows open for pórn viewing?
Maybe you should cut back.
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